I don't watch a lot of television, but earlier this year I watched the entire Breaking Bad series in about three weeks. What made the show so initially compelling for me was Walter White's decision to not undergo chemotherapy. He wanted to die on his own terms. (And he does, but I don't want to give away any spoilers.)
Understandably, his pregnant wife was upset with that choice. Had Walt not succumbed to her wishes, Breaking Bad would have been an entirely different show. Breaking Sad?
This past weekend Brittany Maynard chose to end her life. She had a terminal diagnosis, she lived in Oregon (a state with Death with Dignity laws in place), and she didn't want to suffer. To me, that sounds perfectly reasonable. For others, it sounds downright crazy. Who is right? Who knows? I'm just grateful that this issue is finally getting national attention. We are all going to die and many of us are going to be faced with these same questions. To treat or not to treat? Quality vs. Quantity?
I know I can't change your mind with a Facebook post or an itty, bitty blog, but if you would like to know more about Death with Dignity, you can click on Brittany Maynard's name up there, or click here. I also recommend watching the wonderful documentary How to Die in Oregon. It's an excellent conversation starter.
Everybody Dies: A Children's Book for Grown-Ups
I am super excited to welcome David Ury to my blog. Last week I read a
about his soon to be released book,
Everybody Dies: A Children's Book for Grown-Ups,
and thought it was brilliant. I can't wait to pick up my copy later today! So, who is David Ury?
Author, actor, and stand-up comic David Ury has a long history with death. While he is best known for getting crushed by an ATM as the character
in AMC's "Breaking Bad," he has been shot, bitten, impaled, and stabbed to death countless times in American films and television programs. David's first acting role was in a high school production of "Riders to the Sea." He played the role of Bartley, an Irish fisherman who spent most of the play lying dead onstage, which made his mother cry. He has written nearly one hundred English language adaptations of foreign comics including "Me and the Devil Blues," which won a Glyph Award in 2009.
DW: So, what made you want to write a book about death?
DU: It has always seemed odd to me that death is such a taboo subject, especially considering that it's one of the few things in life that every single one of us will experience. It seems that sex and death are the great taboos....you can't talk about the creation of life and you can't talk about the end of it...but all that stuff in between is fair game. I, personally, am quite terrified of death. This book helps frightened grown ups like myself come to grips with the inevitable fate that awaits us all.
DW: Have you had a lot of personal experience with death in your life?
DU: I have certainly lost people close to me. There wasn't a particular loss that motivated this book.
DW: What are your hopes for this book, besides domination on the NY Times bestseller list?
DU: Domination of the Amazon Best sellers list and.... My ultimate goal in my work is always to create something that is funny but with an underlying poignancy so that the reaction is something like "Hah, that's funny....wait, what?"
If this book could start a conversation about death and how we approach it in Western Society I think that would be nice.
DW: Why do you think our culture is so reluctant to talk about death? (From my own experience, I felt like I might somehow attract it into my life if I paid attention to it.)
DU: I know what you mean about attracting death. Having made this book, I think all the time of the ironic death that could be waiting for me. I've had a bit of anxiety leading up to the release of this book just because it would be so fitting to die just as the book is being released....it would probably be great for sales....luckily my PR guy at Harper Collins isn't that extreme and hasn't really suggested that as an option for getting the book to take off.
I think death scares the crap out of us all. And in the modern Western world death is very sanitized. It's generally something that we only encounter at a hospital, or a funeral parlor. We don't see death in our everyday lives like people might have hundreds of years ago. I think that makes it easy to avoid the subject. Death is something that happens to other people.
DW: I read that you have translated a ton of Manga books. Do you have any desire to write your own?
DU: Yes, I think I've done about 150 graphic novels...which means about 30,000 translated pages. I would love to write my own manga.
DW: Will you be doing any book signings?
DU: Tuesday May 27th is the release date and I will be reading at
in West Hollywood at 7pm.
June 8th (Sunday 3pm) co-author/artist
will be having a book release party at Pasadena Museum of California Art. His art exhibit will be up through the end of June. You can see some pages from the book on Ken Tanaka's
.
Thank you so much for answering my questions and good luck with the book! You can check out
Everybody Dies: A Children's Book for Grown-Ups
You can follow David on Twitter @isthisdavidury